'Crocodile Dundee'/ Buaya Darat

It’s not easy being women, as cheesy as this may sound the truth is many women always get tangled in a sticky , complicated relationship that would involved a lot of sacrifice and tears. They often always become victims of situation, some might say because of their own stupidity but I disagree; In multiple studies, women have been shown to be more intuitive, which makes them more sensitive than men," says Judith Orloff, MD, an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at UCLA. "Studies also reveal that women show more empathy and patience, whereas men are inclined toward problem-solving and are more comfortable with the language of logic than of emotion. In Western culture, especially, males are taught that it isn't macho to be sensitive and show emotion. Women are given more support to express their feelings than men are." So women basically are built this way. Nonetheless men's who realize these circumstances would tactlessly use it to their own advantage. Accordingly as women, one must know and be aware of her situation and the men's around them. Here is a list of men’s women should try to avoid.

1.       Married Men’s

If you know he is married you should run as fast as you can. Married men’s are usually looking for fun; they are bored of the wife and kids. It’s a fact of life when you get married, your life become mundane and expected. Affairs are exciting all the sneaking out and ala’ FBI dating, yes fun until the novelty runs off and you realized that you wanted more. Now you wanted to redeem the words he used to woo you such as I am going to leave my wife and marry you or I am going to make you my second wife. Guess what happens he will give you 1001 excuses not fulfill those promises and still make you hang around. He would play you as if you are the puppet and he is the puppet masters. He would have you hanging by a string of hope that he could use to control you

2.       The Gamer

This guy is already in a committed relationship. But the greedy bastard in him wants you. Thus he will get close to you, pretend to care and be there as a friend, he might  gave you the aura of a platonic friend but  behavior wise he is treating you like a girlfriend. He would pretend that he is Freud, leading you into thinking that he knows you.  He will give you not so subtle signals and leave you confuse of what he really wants from you. At the same time he doesn’t want to lose you, or the other women he is in a stable relationship with, so he would play all these confusing mind games simply because he is too selfish to admit he like you more than a friend. This kind of men’s lacks the confidence and charisma to decide what he wants. He would only get you tangled in a web of perplexing obscure confound that makes it difficult for you to decide whether to leave or stay.

3.       He can’t keep his pants on.

This kind of men’s would hit on anything that moves. These men’s are usually emotionally unavailable. Most of the time they think with those dangly piece of meat they have in between of their legs. The only sensible thing to do is pack your bags and leave. This is the most uncivilized immature types of men’s. Nothing could be done to cure them beside it’s not a disease its just a habit, and if we knows habit especially bad habits they die hard. These men’s live by  these rules;

I party like a rockstar,
Look like a movie star,
Play like an all star,
Fuck like a pornstar,
Baby I'm a superstar

Despite the fact that I am a confident, independent woman who has succeeded in many facets of life, in the past I have been emotionally immature when it comes to relationships. I am writing this based on my previous and current experience with men.  These are men’s women should avoid since they would bring nothing but heartbreaks and poignant dilemma in your life, come to terms with your sensitive nature and guard your heart from heartbreaks.

P/S: Recently I have come to realization that, much as I hate to admit it, I am unconsciously attracted to men like my dad. And though one definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results, I'm finding this attraction quite hard to fight. This isn't some Shakespearean tragedy. My dad had lots of great qualities. He's a handsome, smart, successful man, and those are all qualities that I want in my Mr Right. But he was also very distant in a sense that he is always away for work, and I had to work very hard in order to gain his affection. I hope I have finally found my Mr Right...